Can't Wait for the 30s

There is one common revelation that people in their 30s know and accept wholeheartedly: they stop caring about what other people think about them.  In our 20s, it is one of the hardest decade of our lives since we are trying to find out who we are and trying to adapt to the adulthood like millions of people out there in the world. In fact, we get into relationships that were not meant for us because we care so much about the negativity that people tie with being single out there or we choose a career path that we hate because people say how good and how financially secured it is.  Our 20s are filled with decisions that are based on how society and our peers view and appreciate.

People in their 30s know who they are and they are not afraid to speak up for what they want out of life and this is visible in any relationships they are in; however, in order to get to that point, or to that stage in life, many people had to go through milestones and challenges in their 20s in order to appreciate themselves and their own decisions. The 20s are filled with unwanted and unexpected failures in a lot of areas of our lives, think relationships, friendships, career, jobs, etc., and when we deny to accept the fact, we will drive ourselves insane and this is a sign of denial to problems and this will only leave problems unsolved and lingered longer than they should be.  So the 20s is the self-discovering years and the 30s are the years to enjoy the self more, I don't know about you but knowing what to come in my 30s gives life more hope and definition.