Being the Right Person

I am not the smartest person walking on Earth and I will never make that claim. The older I get, the more I realize how much I don't know and in general, those who claim they are smarter--we all probably know one or two people like this-- than other people have so much to learn. Experiences help us to understand more about life and what truly matters, or should matter, and what should not matter, whether it is in our professional and personal life.  For one thing, life taught me look is not everything; and that without a brain, good looks is void and that adults look beyond looks when they are on a search for the significant others, whether it is a friend or a potential spouse. Of course, we cannot be dressing in rags and hoping to find the right person and fit in a particular group; look is a part of the package of a person and we cannot disregard that since our look tells other people who we are,what we care about, and even our past and therefore, it is imperative that the significant others have the looks but more importantly, we have to remember the characteristics of the person weigh more than the any other parts of the person.

In addition, the money one makes does not matter as much like it used when we were younger; surely, we all want a significant other who is financially stable but what we want more is the love and the relationship from the person not the material stuff, which does not last and is superficial. In the end, what we want is the person and we want to be around a person who can think for himself or herself and who can put joy in our lives. So we need to focus on becoming the right person rather than focusing on the superficial parts in each of us. It's never too late to work on being the right person, we can start today.

Quote of the day: "As you get older you will understand more and more that it's not about what you look like or what you own, it's all about the person you've become."