No one can deny maturing is a long and strenuous process. Sometimes, when we thought that life would get easier after we attain that one college degree or find that special someone, life hits us in the head, knock us over, and throw at us another curveball that we do not expect and we find ourselves in another "situation" again. It's an endless cycle that life will constantly repeat for us and the best we can do, as I discover recently, is to accept it and do our best to find solutions to any problem that arises, no matter what the cause and how difficult the road is.
One of the best part of maturing is that we learn to weed out the aspects of our lives that we do not want and concentrate on the areas that we truly want. It's not easy but it's doable and we will all come to a stage where we have to weed the cancer out of our lives or else the vicious cycle will continue and as a consequence, we will not grow or become the person we want to be. Bad experience is a damn good teacher that can teach us how to sort out our lives and she shows no mercy to the weak and the incompetent; she brings endless pain and stress to those who need to step up so that they can wake up one day and make the necessary changes. But the result will be astounding and mind-blowing from the discipline that life gives to us. It may takes months or even years to recognize the changes we all need to make in order to have and in the end, we will become the person we need to be. Those disciplining in the maturing process is like the water that a thirsty plant needs in order to grow and become a beautiful and radiant living being and if we are determined to overcome the in-coming obstacles, we, too, will be that lustrous living being.
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