The Ideal Father

Millions of Americans come from a home with a single mother and no presence of their father.  Many of them grow up to be successful while many of them turn on the wrong path that leads them to unwanted consequences.  As most of us know, money plays a big role in determining a child's future; if a child comes from a low socioec0nomic background he or she will have to pass through numerous obstacles in order to reach success while children from a family with money are more likely to be successful in their goals and endeavors in life--of course, there are many American children who defy this general knowledge and go on to become successful entrepreneurs and professionals and are stable in life later on.  Put the financial part aside, we can say children's relationships with their parents play a big role in determining their success in life.  There is no question about that; children who grow up with two caring parents are more likely to do well in school and in their chosen profession.

In the recent YouTube video from Smarter Every Day, the host Destin, who is an engineer, based in Alabama, posted a video about his new born child.  He goes on stating how much he loves his family and how he loves being  a father and wants to be the best he can be to his children.  With the addition of the newborn, Destin now has four children and he loves them deeply and he is not afraid to share it; his children are included in the videos and he constantly verbalizes how much he loves them.  Destin sets a great example of how a father should be and his two millions plus followers. on the Smarter Every Day channel, will hopefully follow his path. As a woman, I loves men who care for their family and even better when he actually loves doing it.  We should all look for a man who would love our children as much as he loves himself. Why? In the end, what matters is the love the man brings in the home, not what he can bring to the table financially.  A wealthy man can have all the money in the world but if he does not love his wife or  his children, all the money will not be worth it; the saying money cannot buy love is true and many women can attest to this fact.  So young and unmarried women out there, remember to choose a mate wisely because in the end, what matters is the love he gives to you and your children.