Growing up, we all want to overcome our fears and do great things in the world. We learn over the years that our fears are not worth our time and we decide to do what we fear the most. However, have any of you come to a point where as you overcome your fear, you are actually fearful of overcoming it? You are shaky, sweaty, and scared of what might happen and what would people say as you go through the process of passing our fears. You lose sleep over what you did and how you would handle the situation even though you know exactly what you should do in order to overcome the fear. There are many reasons to why you have this fear of overcoming your fear: you are not sure about our future, we are not used to not being fearful, especially for the individuals who have always been scared for most of their lives. Of all the reasons, the need to please people is the strongest cause of why we are fearful as we confront our fears. We are afraid of what people have to say to us. We are afraid of making the wrong move and would lose what we have to people. The fear of people is what holding us back and preventing us from confronting our fear.
Here are some remedies on what to do in this situation:
1. We need to reassure our ourselves that we can overcome our fears. The process of overcoming is a stage process and no one can do it over night.
2. Remind ourselves that we have to stop being fearful no matter how shaky we are. We have to keep going and do what needs to be done.
3. Last and definitely not least, we have to keep our goals in mind. Our goals should be our drive to overcome our fears.
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