The Right Time

I am single and I used to cringe every time I have to tell other people about the fact and now as I get older, I don't see any point of getting embarrassed about it. People will always have an opinion about me, no matter how bad or good of a person I am, and I discover that listening to other people only leads to an unsatisfying and unwanted life.  As I approach my late 20s, my Asian mother, with her broken English, kept asking, "You married yet?" and my answer is always, "I don't know." But recently, I have a different response when my noisy mother asks me the same question for the thousands time: "When the right time come, he will come." To be honest, I don't know if I actually believe it when I first heard it coming out of my mouth but as I continually say it to anyone who ask me the same question, I come to actually believe it. People say that if you don't believe in yourself, just pretend that you do and you will eventually will.

In the similar scenario, I have come to believe the fact too that when the right time comes, my Prince will come. I have dated countless guys and many of them are great men but things never did click. When it comes to experiencing the dating world, there is always trial and error until we understand something. Likewise, dating is the same. We will have to go through some bad and wrong relationships before we land on the right one. We can't rush or force it. The process is a part of life and for the time being, the best we can do is to focus on being the right person and enjoy what we have because when he/she comes, everything will make sense.