Recently I learned there will be times in our life where we hurt someone without having any intention to. It especially hurts the most to know we hurt someone who we care a lot about. Sometimes it is hard to mend the friendship but if we try hard enough there are ways to work it out. There is a chance we just have to let the friendship goes into oblivion for now and then come back later; that's what they teach in school right? If you are stuck with a problem on a test, move to the next one and eventually your brain will find the answer and we can apply the same rule to our daily problems. More importantly, we cannot change people's mind about us, whether that is negative or positive. The important thing is we have to keep going and keep working on our goals because in the end that is all that matters.
Feelings come and go and we have to remember people change base on how they feel. One day they might be angry at you and the next day they might decide to forgive you. If we hurt someone, apologize and if the person accepts it then continue the friendship but if the person refuses the apology, maybe we should move on especially if we try everything we would to save the relationship and it still does not work out.
Whatever happens, we have to learn to take control of our lives and work on ourselves. Even if we have to jump from one failed relationship and friendship to another, we have to keep going, keep speeding to the goals. Because you never know, something great might land in front of our door one day without us ever expecting it.
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